Unless your parents arranged for your marriage and offered a dowry of a milk cow and 18 chickens, you've experienced a break-up.  How we deal with a break-up could be the difference between finding love again and living in our parents' spare room watching romance movies while crying ourselves to sleep.  

Some get angry (See Miranda Lambert), some take action (See Carrie Underwood's "Two Black Cadillacs") and still others tell the world about the scumbag that just broke their heart (See every Taylor Swift song written).

Is one way better than another?  Personally, I'd rather read on Facebook that I'm a terrible boyfriend than worry about gunpowder and lead coming my way.  Miranda doesn't mince words... she will destroy your world if you mess with her.  Carrie is the silent assassin that you never see coming.  Taylor?  She's been called the worst ex-girlfriend in the world.  If the pen is truly mightier than the sword she could be the most dangerous woman in history.  Millions of music fans across all genres have paid their (or their parents') hard-earned money to listen to her sing about the terrible things men have done to her.  If you date Taylor Swift you better hope it's forever.  If not, just ask John Mayer what happens.

I see Taylor Swift morphing into Miranda Lambert within the next five years.  She'll eventually get tired of being the victim and start taking gun classes.  Watch out!