
Woman Kicks Out Husband Caught Messaging Much Younger Woman: ‘Said He Loved Her’
A 46-year-old woman on Reddit says she kicked her 51-year-old husband out after she caught him messaging younger women online.
"We've been together for 22 years, and he's been a wonderful husband. Lately, I've noticed he's been secretive while texting. When I ask him who he's texting, he yells at me, saying I'm suspicious and crazy," she began.
The woman's suspicions got the best of her and she looked through her husband's phone, where she found messages he had been exchanging with a younger woman.
"One night, I woke up in the middle of the night and saw his phone, so I looked through it. I found that he was messaging a [25-year-old woman], asking for videos and pictures. He told her he loved her. I also discovered he was on other social media platforms I didn’t know about, sending DMs to multiple women," she continued.
"I turned off my emotions, got up, and started folding his clothes from the closet. When he came out, he looked confused. I showed him his phone, and he started panicking. I read some of the messages to him, and he began yelling at me, saying I'm insecure, that it's just flirting, and that I don’t understand him," the woman shared.
"He has always known that cheating is a hard no for me, especially since my dad cheated on my mom and left her for another woman. He started telling me I’m crazy and that it’s 'just messaging' and not really cheating," she explained, adding that she told her husband to leave and find somewhere else to go.
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Users in the comments section of the post sided with the wife.
"It sounds like he’s violated your trust on multiple levels. You have every right to set boundaries, especially when someone crosses a line that you made clear was a deal breaker from the start. Stick to your guns, and don't let him make you the villain in a situation he created," one person advised.
"He's not only crossed a line but is trying to manipulate you into feeling like you're the problem. Cheating, whether emotional or physical, is a breach of trust. You've supported him for 15 years, and this is how he repays you? Nope, you did the right thing. Don't doubt yourself!" another added.
"Text the 25-year-old, tell her the dirty laundry on the porch is ready to be picked up," someone else suggested.
"As a man let me tell you that your 'husband' is no man. Only losers do what he did. You shouldn't let him be on your property," another chimed in.
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